Women Still Want Love | Daily Dose of Hue | Christian Life

There are times that I think about many topics that I want to talk about. I feel that expressing my thoughts is not my forte. However, today I felt like writing this in the hopes that it will help someone.  Over the years the lives of woman have changed drastically and in many ways I am thankful because I am able to vote, work and many other opportunities that other woman did not have in the past but worked hard to get us here. 

However, deep down women are very romantic and always in search for love. Weather deep down we refuse to admit, and want to be proud, I think we just want to be loved. Many say love is complicated, but its not at all, its simple, love is love. We humans are the ones that make it complicated. We are picky and want more than we can handle. As a Christian now, I have learned the simplicity of love, unconditional love and the patience of love. There were times I had it all and still felt empty. I was married, single, in a relationship yet I was unhappy. 

Colossians 3:14 ^

And more than all, have love; the only way in which you may be completely joined together.

I am not here to tell you that you should be a Christian. I think your time will come for you to decide for yourself. I just don't want anyone to go through this life and be disappointed with love. A lot has changed for women the only thing that has not changed is God's plans for women and not just women, men as well. God has given us the rules to this life and we refuse to accept them and incorporate them. I feel that over the years God's word is being forgotten and just shoved under the rug because we want to live in the new trend of fame, sex, alcohol and butt shaking, with our phones in our hands at every minute documenting our every move. That's not what life is about.. its enjoying the person next to you. Not living a life of shame and guilt that later lead you to alcohol and drugs. 

Psalms 37:4 ^

So will your delight be in the Lord, and he will give you your heart's desires.

We only seek God when we are heartbroken or in a dark moment of our life. Once He has brought peace to our hearts we go back to the same cycle of life and then back to seek God when we fail once more. Many couples don't want to get married and those who get married just get married to have a big party. We need to have in mind God's word and thru Jesus Christ we have so much to look forward to. Marriage is more than just "lets get married". When we bring God into our plans He takes control and guides our every move. 

Many couples say, we are going to get married when our careers take off, when we have enough money to throw a big wedding. Why!? Everything we do in the name of Jesus Christ will be a success. Even more than what you have planned. Ladies, don't degrade your soul any longer. Your body is a temple and God wants us to be happy, loved and successful. Don't avoid his words any longer. His promises are real and I am 100% sure that anything you do in His name that is; with a sincere heart He will make your desires come true. Find the goodness in your heart and do things the right way. Stop living the same cycle of life, relationship through relationship. Waiting for a certain something in order to get married. Being married doesn’t affect your success, your career, it actually makes it more successful because there is two.  

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 ^

Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their work. And if one has a fall, the other will give him a hand; but unhappy is the man who is by himself, because he has no helper.

Let's not forget that anything we do we put it in God's hand and let Him bless our paths. That anything we do with the goodness of our hearts that He will care for. Continuing to have a relationship with Him will keep your relationship free of stress and doubts. It's never late to seek His help. Always focus on the goal and the goodness of your heart. We create our own suffering, our own choices. God corrects our ways because He doesn't want us to be unhappy.

Ephesians 4:2-4 ^

With all gentle and quiet behavior, taking whatever comes, putting up with one another in love;Taking care to keep the harmony of the Spirit in the yoke of peace.There is one body and one Spirit, even as you have been marked out by God in the one hope of his purpose for you;

I wished I had grown up in a Christian household, that spoke of God's promises. Perhaps I would not have understood then ---the way I do now. Eventually we all surrender to Him or I hope we do because His love is greater than anything. I do understand how hard it can be to be in obedience, to pray, celibacy but I can't explain the happiness and peace that I feel when I walk, when I sleep. Obedience is greater than sacrifices, and it gives you a type of strength that lasts and its like nothing else. 

Psalms 95:6 ^

O come, let us give worship, falling down on our knees before the Lord our Maker